It is said that if you are irritated easily than you are stressed... ._. But then it has to take into consideration people's characters, i.e., the degree of patience they possess. And sometimes it depends on what/who is involved I guesssss~

Am speaking from experience. For me, I wouldn't say I am really patient. But as far as I can be, I would (or try to be hahaha). I can't stand it when people beat around the bush trying to make the situation in their favour or saying things that they don't mean. Or those who brings inconvenience to others. The worst of the worst would be KY PEOPLE (japanese term of people who can't read the atmosphere or situation, or basically insensitive people?). No matter how much I compare it with other annoying things, this always win without much effort.

There is this certain part of me that feels like screaming out some complaints, but ahhhh, self-censorship!!!


Ah anyway to move on to something else... Recently I am reflecting on the way human perceive human. You know, there are times when you would expect certain actions. Isn't it normal to associate friends with scenarios like willing to hear you out when you are troubled, or like asking if you are okay when you looked moody? I don't know if it's okay to be like this but sometimes this kind of thoughts are so subconscious, to the point that you would only know when people are not doing what you expected. And the reason why they didn't do what you think they would (or should) is really hard to know. Sometimes it may just be unintended. Like if they didn't know you are feeling upset, it may be that their mind are focused on something else or that... (sorry to say this but if there are people who are more observant, then) these people are slightly less observant. It's a misconception to think that if you care, you would discover. There are people who just don't discover at all.

After writing so much I feel like I am losing my point and my initial intention hahaha. But doesn't matter!

PS: I don't enjoy coming up with titles for posts that are unfocused...

Labels: Thoughts

It is said that if you are irritated easily than you are stressed... ._. But then it has to take into consideration people's characters, i.e., the degree of patience they possess. And sometimes it depends on what/who is involved I guesssss~

Am speaking from experience. For me, I wouldn't say I am really patient. But as far as I can be, I would (or try to be hahaha). I can't stand it when people beat around the bush trying to make the situation in their favour or saying things that they don't mean. Or those who brings inconvenience to others. The worst of the worst would be KY PEOPLE (japanese term of people who can't read the atmosphere or situation, or basically insensitive people?). No matter how much I compare it with other annoying things, this always win without much effort.

There is this certain part of me that feels like screaming out some complaints, but ahhhh, self-censorship!!!


Ah anyway to move on to something else... Recently I am reflecting on the way human perceive human. You know, there are times when you would expect certain actions. Isn't it normal to associate friends with scenarios like willing to hear you out when you are troubled, or like asking if you are okay when you looked moody? I don't know if it's okay to be like this but sometimes this kind of thoughts are so subconscious, to the point that you would only know when people are not doing what you expected. And the reason why they didn't do what you think they would (or should) is really hard to know. Sometimes it may just be unintended. Like if they didn't know you are feeling upset, it may be that their mind are focused on something else or that... (sorry to say this but if there are people who are more observant, then) these people are slightly less observant. It's a misconception to think that if you care, you would discover. There are people who just don't discover at all.

After writing so much I feel like I am losing my point and my initial intention hahaha. But doesn't matter!

PS: I don't enjoy coming up with titles for posts that are unfocused...

Labels: Thoughts