Just when I don't have to go out today, my hair falls nicely in place. - - Dang it.

I think... I slept too much. Sigh.

Anyway, here to talk about *points to title*. I am not obsessed with socpsyh, just, sometimes it gets me thinking.

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Communication involves others: you are what people think you are.

When I was young, I like watermelon. Or rather, I grew up in an environment where people told me I love watermelon (sounds ridiculous but it really is true). After I got older, I realised, actually... I don't love it that much. I love fruits, but there are other fruits I love more other than watermelon.

Well, that's probably one of the things that didn't matter that much. But you know, sometimes it really quite bad when people label you with something that you aren't. Because everyone treated you as that, it turns into a stereotype, where no one will take in information other than those related to what they think you are. Then slowly, you only portrays things that they are willing to take in, which inevitably makes you what they think you are.

I really want to say, what you think I am does not really make me so, and just because you think I am not like this doesn't mean I am really not.

Time- living in the past, present or future

When people are unhappy with they present, they try to escape, to the past and to the future. They go back to memories looking for those happy times, then to the future hoping that time would fade everything. Its hard to live in the present every now and then. Someone living in the present would only care about today, not planning for tomorrow, forgetting yesterday. Can it actually be possible?

Hmmmm... Where am I actually living in now~
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Anyway.
I would never force myself to do or not to do something. Like I tried to control myself not to eat too much sweet stuffs, but I ended up taking more? RAHHHH.

PS: Off to watch Bokura ga Ita. I am living in this anime for today muahahha~

Labels: Thoughts

Just when I don't have to go out today, my hair falls nicely in place. - - Dang it.

I think... I slept too much. Sigh.

Anyway, here to talk about *points to title*. I am not obsessed with socpsyh, just, sometimes it gets me thinking.

--
Communication involves others: you are what people think you are.

When I was young, I like watermelon. Or rather, I grew up in an environment where people told me I love watermelon (sounds ridiculous but it really is true). After I got older, I realised, actually... I don't love it that much. I love fruits, but there are other fruits I love more other than watermelon.

Well, that's probably one of the things that didn't matter that much. But you know, sometimes it really quite bad when people label you with something that you aren't. Because everyone treated you as that, it turns into a stereotype, where no one will take in information other than those related to what they think you are. Then slowly, you only portrays things that they are willing to take in, which inevitably makes you what they think you are.

I really want to say, what you think I am does not really make me so, and just because you think I am not like this doesn't mean I am really not.

Time- living in the past, present or future

When people are unhappy with they present, they try to escape, to the past and to the future. They go back to memories looking for those happy times, then to the future hoping that time would fade everything. Its hard to live in the present every now and then. Someone living in the present would only care about today, not planning for tomorrow, forgetting yesterday. Can it actually be possible?

Hmmmm... Where am I actually living in now~
--

Anyway.
I would never force myself to do or not to do something. Like I tried to control myself not to eat too much sweet stuffs, but I ended up taking more? RAHHHH.

PS: Off to watch Bokura ga Ita. I am living in this anime for today muahahha~

Labels: Thoughts