White Knight Syndrome
Friday, October 22, 2010 // 1:06 AM
Sometimes don't people feel the need to rescue people? Thinking we are the (only) ones that can save people from whatever situation they are in. Like wanting to be good friend with the kid who is always bullied in class. It's sad.
This was somehow portrayed in Love Shuffle. (okay okay shhh, I know no one else watches it but this is the only example I can come out with for now) When Kikuta couldn't forget his 'girl'friend who committed suicide, then Ai-ai was like, "What makes you think you can't be happy again? Believe in me!" Kikuta's right in saying Ai-ai is doing this out of pity. And when you really suffer from White Knight Syndrome, you wouldn't mind self-sacrificing so as to successfully rescue people. Sometimes the funny thing is, after they have been rescued, they still need you, but you don't need them anymore, because they don't need to be rescued anymore. Yet again sometimes, you still want to rescue but they just run far far away. It's sad because people forget about what they really like or want. Whether they really want to be close with the specific person they are dealing with. And the consequences of 'rescuing'.
Another kind of example is wanting people to share their unhappiness and complaints. Hmmm, so how much external negative energy can one take in? For this, I hope negative and negative becomes positive.
只有文字可以把我添的满满的。♥
Labels: Love Shuffle, Psychology, Thoughts, White Knight Syndrome
White Knight Syndrome
Friday, October 22, 2010 // 1:06 AM
Sometimes don't people feel the need to rescue people? Thinking we are the (only) ones that can save people from whatever situation they are in. Like wanting to be good friend with the kid who is always bullied in class. It's sad.
This was somehow portrayed in Love Shuffle. (okay okay shhh, I know no one else watches it but this is the only example I can come out with for now) When Kikuta couldn't forget his 'girl'friend who committed suicide, then Ai-ai was like, "What makes you think you can't be happy again? Believe in me!" Kikuta's right in saying Ai-ai is doing this out of pity. And when you really suffer from White Knight Syndrome, you wouldn't mind self-sacrificing so as to successfully rescue people. Sometimes the funny thing is, after they have been rescued, they still need you, but you don't need them anymore, because they don't need to be rescued anymore. Yet again sometimes, you still want to rescue but they just run far far away. It's sad because people forget about what they really like or want. Whether they really want to be close with the specific person they are dealing with. And the consequences of 'rescuing'.
Another kind of example is wanting people to share their unhappiness and complaints. Hmmm, so how much external negative energy can one take in? For this, I hope negative and negative becomes positive.
只有文字可以把我添的满满的。♥
Labels: Love Shuffle, Psychology, Thoughts, White Knight Syndrome
dreaming of what could be,
and if i'll end up happy, i will pray.