近株者赤
Sunday, March 7, 2010 // 11:17 PM
I thought I sounded as though not bringing mobile phone outside was just a dream in the last post. It really did happen in reality.
I am beginning to suspect blog deluding us, mentally. For example, I felt the difference in distance when I thought about two ex-friends (is there such things...?). One who has a blog another who doesn't. Somehow I can't really remember much about the one who doesn't have one, but still clearly remember how the one who has is like.
Okay, not just blogs, but all kinds of communications (yup, I am saying this even though I am going to study about them for the next 3 years). They are making people think they are close to someone when it may not be mutual at all.
The point is, are we losing the grasp of reality?
Being nice, trying to be nice, acting to be nice, or not nice at all, which one do you prefer?
Sometimes it's not that people don't want to be nice, but because either their courtesy is taken for granted, or it's just an eye for an eye. I mean, most people will be mean to people who are mean to them, right? So who started the evil cycle?
And, there is huge difference of being frank and being mean. Being frank is saying it's your own opinion, but being mean is saying things which you know will annoy people.
Maybe it doesn't matter who started it, but it has to end.
Labels: Thoughts
近株者赤
Sunday, March 7, 2010 // 11:17 PM
I thought I sounded as though not bringing mobile phone outside was just a dream in the last post. It really did happen in reality.
I am beginning to suspect blog deluding us, mentally. For example, I felt the difference in distance when I thought about two ex-friends (is there such things...?). One who has a blog another who doesn't. Somehow I can't really remember much about the one who doesn't have one, but still clearly remember how the one who has is like.
Okay, not just blogs, but all kinds of communications (yup, I am saying this even though I am going to study about them for the next 3 years). They are making people think they are close to someone when it may not be mutual at all.
The point is, are we losing the grasp of reality?
Being nice, trying to be nice, acting to be nice, or not nice at all, which one do you prefer?
Sometimes it's not that people don't want to be nice, but because either their courtesy is taken for granted, or it's just an eye for an eye. I mean, most people will be mean to people who are mean to them, right? So who started the evil cycle?
And, there is huge difference of being frank and being mean. Being frank is saying it's your own opinion, but being mean is saying things which you know will annoy people.
Maybe it doesn't matter who started it, but it has to end.
Labels: Thoughts
dreaming of what could be,
and if i'll end up happy, i will pray.